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Privacy Policy

Last Updated: October 24, 2026  ·  Effective Date: October 4, 2026

Contents

  • Our Privacy Philosophy
  • Summary of Key Points
  • 1. Introduction
  • 2. Information We Collect
  • 3. How We Use Your Information
  • 4. How We Share Your Information
  • 5. Data Security
  • 6. Data Retention
  • 7. Your Privacy Rights
  • 8. Children's Privacy
  • 9. Data About Non-Users
  • 10. Analytics, Tracking, and Mobile SDKs
  • 11. International Data Transfers
  • 12. Third-Party Links and Integrations
  • 13. Push Notifications and Communications
  • 14. Clipboard Access
  • 15. Job Applicants
  • 16. Updates to This Privacy Policy
  • 17. Contact Us
  • 18. Specific State and Country Disclosures
  • 19. Definitions

Our Privacy Philosophy

We built Tether because we believe your contact information belongs to you — and so does your data. We don't sell your personal data as a source of revenue. We don't use it for advertising. We take care in overseeing how your data is accessed and what it is used for. Our philosophy: only collect and process what is necessary to operate and improve the Service, and treat your data the way we would want someone to treat ours.

Specific examples of how this philosophy is built into the product:

  • Your address book is encrypted in transit and at rest, and access to it inside Tether is limited to what's needed to run, secure and support the Service
  • Connection suggestions never show anyone your phone number or email address
  • When you sign out on a device, Tether removes its data from that device before anyone else can sign in. If a device is signed out another way while it holds changes that have not synced, it keeps its encrypted copy, closed to everyone else, for up to 40 days so you can sign back in and keep those changes (see Section 5.1). Copies you saved or shared outside Tether stay under your control
  • We do not use advertising networks, behavioral-advertising trackers, or ad-tech identifiers in the Tether mobile app, and we do not place advertising cookies or tracking pixels on our website
  • We do not subscribe you to marketing lists when you sign up
  • We strip personally identifiable information from crash reports before they leave your device (see Section 4.2 — Sentry)
  • Product analytics (PostHog) stays off unless you turn it on in Settings, and never receives your Tether account ID or contact data (see Section 4.3)
  • You can export all your data, and delete your account, at any time from within the app
  • Phone-number and email-address changes come with a 24-hour undo window and security notices (see Section 3.7)

Summary of Key Points

TopicShort Answer
Do we sell your data?No
Do we use advertising networks?No
Do we share data with third parties?Only service providers necessary to operate the app (see Section 4.2)
Do we collect health data?Only if you choose to fill in the optional allergy and dietary fields, for yourself or your contacts. Yours are never shared unless you choose to share them.
How do connection suggestions work?If two people have each other's phone number saved, we may suggest they connect. A suggestion never connects you automatically.
Do we use product analytics?Only with your explicit consent — PostHog events use a separate pseudonymous analytics ID and no contact data; see Section 4.2
Do we strip EXIF/GPS from uploaded photos?Yes — uploaded images are re-encoded to a normalized JPEG, which strips embedded EXIF/GPS metadata before storage (see Section 2.5)
Do we verify your phone number is a real mobile?Yes — at signup we run a carrier lookup via Telnyx to confirm your number is a mobile line. Voice-over-IP, landline, and toll-free numbers are refused. The carrier name, line type, and country are stored to avoid re-paying for repeat lookups. See Section 2.9.
Do we detect compromised devices?Yes — the app refuses to operate on jailbroken or rooted devices (see Section 3.8)
What happens when you change your phone or email?A 24-hour revocation window with notifications to old phone, old email, and other devices (see Section 3.7)
Can you export your data?Yes — vCard, CSV, or JSON via Settings
Can you delete your account?Yes — Settings > Danger zone > Delete account

1. Introduction

Welcome to Tether ("we," "our," or "us"). Tether is a privacy-first professional contact management application that keeps your contact information current through live updates and synchronization across your devices.

This Privacy Policy explains how we collect, use, disclose, and safeguard your information when you use our mobile application and related services (collectively, the "Service"). Please read this policy carefully. If you do not agree, please do not access the Service.

We reserve the right to make changes to this Privacy Policy at any time. We will alert you about material changes by updating the "Last Updated" date and, for significant changes, by providing prominent in-app notice, email notification, or both. Your continued use of the Service after the effective date of any revised Policy constitutes acceptance.


2. Information We Collect

2.1 Information You Provide to Us

Account Information:

  • Phone number (required for authentication via SMS OTP — Tether's primary sign-in method)
  • Email address (optional; recommended for account recovery, and lets people who know your email find you; see Section 2.7)
  • When your phone number and email address were verified — see Section 2.7
  • Name (first, last, optional middle, prefix, suffix)
  • Profile information (company, job title, department, handle/username, pronouns, bio, avatar photo)
  • "Based-in" city and state (optional)
  • Account preferences and settings (including accessibility preferences such as dark mode, push-notification preferences, sharing-tier defaults, and analytics consent state)
  • Subscription tier and entitlement state (sourced from RevenueCat)
  • Account status dates (for example, when an account was locked or scheduled for deletion)
  • Your time zone and when you were last active
  • Pending-account-change records (see Section 3.7)

Contact Data: You may choose to store the following information about your contacts:

  • Basic: Names (including prefixes/suffixes), nicknames, pronouns, companies, departments, job titles
  • Bio: Free-form bio.
  • Contact Details: Phone numbers (stored in E.164 international format), email addresses, physical addresses (street, city, state, postal code, country, optional Place ID and formatted address)
  • Social & Web: Social-media profiles across 15 platforms (including LinkedIn, X/Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, Snapchat, GitHub, YouTube, WhatsApp, Telegram, Signal, Venmo, Pinterest, Cash App, and "other"), website URLs
  • Important Dates: Birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, and custom date fields (shared only with circles you allow to see that kind of date)
  • Notes and Met-context: Free-form notes (length limits depend on your current plan), "how we met" (up to 255 characters), met date, met location
  • Photos: Contact profile photos (EXIF metadata is automatically stripped on upload via JPEG re-encoding — see Section 2.5)
  • Health Information (optional): Allergies (and a "no known allergies" option) and dietary preferences, for yourself or your contacts. These are the only health-related fields Tether stores. See Section 4.1 for how your own health fields are shared.
  • Family and Children: Contact type (adult, child, company), child information (birth year, grade level, school name, parent links), a list of other family members (name, relationship, contact type, and an optional link to a Tether user); contact-to-contact family relationships
  • Custom Fields: User-defined label/value pairs typed as text, number, date, URL, phone, or email
  • Connection State: whether a contact is connected to a Tether user, and whether that connection is active
  • Household Link: if you and one other adult Tether user each confirm that you share a household, we record that link (who asked, when it was confirmed, and when and why it ended), together with any "not my household" choices you make about suggested pairs of your contacts. A household link is a permission root for the coordination features described in Section 3.1; it never merges your address books, creates a shared address, or shares your contacts or profile fields with the other adult
  • Household Coordination on Invitations: when an event host or meal organizer groups you with another adult as one household on a specific invitation, or you add your confirmed household partner to one, we record that group for that invitation only, each member's named answer, who wrote each answer and through which link, any named dependents you add, and which household member is responsible for each item or meal you sign up for. We also keep a short activity log of these changes for that invitation and a record of the coalesced update notices we send
  • Live Fields: A record of which fields on a linked contact came from the other user's live profile (see Section 3.1)
  • Import Lineage: Import source, import-batch ID, import fingerprint
  • Device Contact Identifiers: The identifier your phone assigns to an imported contact, so the same person isn't imported twice

Event Data: When you create or participate in events:

  • Event details (title, date, time, location, description)
  • Your RSVP status and attendance
  • Co-host assignments and guest lists
  • Per-RSVP snapshots: for each contact you invite to an event, we store a snapshot of their display name and email address on the RSVP record at invite time. This snapshot lets co-hosts see and contact the invitees you've added, and lets any host or co-host re-invite the same people to follow-up events. Only the name and email you attached to the invitation are captured — no phone numbers, addresses, notes, or other fields from your address book.

Posts and Activity:

  • Life updates you post, including their text and photos
  • When you first see a life update in your feed, and that you saw it. The person who posted it can see this, along with which of the people they shared it with haven't seen it yet

Privacy Circle Assignments:

  • Your classification of contacts into sharing tiers (Community, Professional, Close)
  • Custom circle memberships
  • Shared circle/directory memberships

Mailing and Address-Request Data:

  • Mailing-household choices, address-scoped keep-separate decisions, custom envelope names, and the date and address fingerprint of a confirmation
  • For an address request you choose to send: the circle and people covered, delivery contact and email address, the address shown at send time, your optional note, delivery and reminder status, and the recipient's confirmation or proposed update
  • When a household has two adults with their own email addresses, each receives a personal link to the same request. The first answer given for the household is shown to the other adult, who can confirm it, correct it, or give a separate address that applies only to them
  • Public response links are random capabilities stored only in hashed form. An unsubscribe link is signed rather than stored: it names only the delivery record of the email it came in, and we keep no copy of the link

Directory and Shared Circle Data:

  • Directory name and description
  • Your membership status and role
  • Information you choose to share with directory members
  • Information other directory members choose to share with you

Communication Preferences:

  • Push notification settings
  • Email communication preferences
  • Feature opt-in/opt-out choices

2.2 Information Collected Automatically

Device Information:

  • Device type, model, and operating system version
  • Installation ID: a random ID the app creates the first time it runs on your device and keeps there. It's never a hardware identifier. We store it with your account, along with a version of it tied to your account, so your changes reach your other devices, each device can tell its own changes apart, and you can see where you're signed in. We don't use it to follow you across other apps or services. It's deleted when your account is deleted, except on the consent records described in Section 6.2, which keep a shortened form of it.
  • Push notification token: if you enable push notifications, we store the Expo push token issued to your device — a persistent per-device identifier — on our servers, keyed to your account, so we can deliver notifications to that device. The token is used only to route notifications. We delete it when you sign out, and tokens are also removed when unused (inactive after 90 days and hard-deleted after 180 days) and when you delete your account. See Sections 4.2, 6.1, 10.1, and 13.
  • App version and build number
  • Device language, region settings, screen resolution, and device capabilities

Usage Data: The product-analytics items below are collected only after you turn on analytics in Settings. Error and performance monitoring through Sentry is separate and privacy-filtered as described in Section 4.3.

  • Features you use within the app
  • Actions you perform (creating contacts, editing information, syncing data, joining directories, creating events, RSVPing)
  • Error logs and crash reports (collected via Sentry; personally identifiable information is automatically redacted before transmission — see Section 4.2)
  • Performance metrics (app launch time, sync duration, API response times)
  • Interaction patterns and feature adoption associated with a random, memory-only pseudonymous analytics identifier that is never your Tether account ID
  • Accessibility feature usage (dark mode, Dynamic Type settings)

Technical Data:

  • IP address (used for security, rate limiting, and abuse prevention; we do not work out your location from it)
  • Invitation links: when someone opens a Tether invitation or sharing link (for an event, circle, or profile), we record which link was opened and when. We don't store the visitor's network or browser details with that record. To stop abuse, we count link opens per network (IP) address, and a nightly cleanup deletes those counts once they are more than a day old. Unsubscribe links are counted differently, never by network address: we count how often each link is used and, if you use Undo on an unsubscribe page, how often Undo is used for a hashed form of your email address. The same cleanup deletes those counts. Link records that never led to a sign-up are deleted after 24 months.
  • Session duration and frequency
  • Sync operation metadata (timestamps, record counts, sync status)
  • Network connection type (WiFi, cellular)
  • Connectivity checks: to tell whether you're online, the app sometimes sends a small request to a Google network-check address. It carries your device's IP address and basic request details, but no account or contact data

2.3 Information from Third-Party Sources

Contact Import Services: With your explicit permission, we may import contact data from:

  • Your device's native contact database (iOS Contacts, Android Contacts)
  • Google Contacts (via OAuth 2.0 and Google People API)
  • Microsoft Contacts (via OAuth 2.0 and Microsoft Graph API)
  • vCard (.vcf) files you upload
  • CSV files you upload (including spreadsheets used to seed an event guest list)
  • A Google Sheets link you choose to import
  • The guest list of a past event (where you re-invite or re-import names + emails captured at invite time)
  • A QR-code / contact-card scan, where supported
  • A user you connect with through a referral link
  • Manual entry within the app

Import lineage is preserved on each contact record (import source, batch ID, and fingerprint) for deduplication, undo, and audit purposes.

Selecting records for import only adds or updates contacts in Tether. It does not send an email, text, invitation, or other message to those contacts. If a possible match already exists in Tether, you review proposed changes before they are saved. A later group-message, contact-card, event, or address-request action is a separate user-directed step with its own recipient review.

When you authorize these integrations, we receive all contact information stored in those services, metadata about when contacts were created or last modified, and contact groupings and labels. We only request the minimum permissions necessary to provide our services. We do not access your emails, documents, or other data unrelated to contact management. Calendar access is a separate, optional feature with its own permission — see Section 2.10.

Google data. Tether's use of information received from Google APIs, including Google Contacts, adheres to the Google API Services User Data Policy, including its Limited Use requirements. We use Google contact data only to import the contacts you choose into Tether. We do not sell it, use it for advertising, or let people read it except as needed for security, to comply with the law, or with your permission.

Data About You from Others: Just as you may provide information about your contacts when you sync your device contacts, others may provide limited information about you when they do the same. For example, another Tether user may save your phone number in their address book, and that information may be used to suggest a mutual connection between you, subject to the connection-suggestion rules in Section 3.9.

Contact Import Authentication: When you connect Google for contact import, Tether asks only to read your contacts, so Google doesn't send us your profile. When you authorize Microsoft, we receive basic profile information to authenticate the connection, a provider-specific user identifier, and an account timestamp. These connections are used solely for contact import — they are not used for Tether authentication (Tether uses Phone OTP only).

2.4 Biometric Information

If you enable biometric authentication (Face ID, Touch ID, fingerprint): we do not collect, store, or transmit your biometric data; authentication is processed entirely on your device using the secure enclave; we only receive a success/failure signal; your biometric templates never leave your device.

2.5 Photo and Image Metadata

When you upload photos or images to the Service (including profile photos, contact photos, event photos, and life-update photos), the image is automatically re-encoded to a normalized JPEG before storage. This re-encoding strips embedded EXIF metadata — including GPS coordinates, camera make and model, device serial numbers, and timestamps — so that metadata is not retained on our servers or shared with other users.

Photos you upload may be visible to other users in accordance with your privacy-tier and circle settings. Note that metadata stripping happens at upload only; if you share an original image file outside Tether by other means, that copy may still contain its embedded metadata.

2.6 Location Data

We do not work out your location from your IP address. If you add a physical address to your profile or contacts, it is stored and shared according to your circle settings.

2.7 Verified-Identifier Status (Email and Phone)

Each account in the Service has, at any point in time, zero or one "verified" status for the user's email address and zero or one "verified" status for the user's phone number. Verification is performed by sending a one-time code to the identifier and requiring the user to enter that code in the app.

We process verified-identifier status for the following purposes:

  • Account recovery. A verified email is the secondary channel by which you can recover access to your account if you lose access to your phone number.
  • Discovery handshake gating. Other users may discover and request to connect with you using your email address only when your email is verified. The same gate applies to your phone number.
  • Security-notification routing. Security notifications (including the 24-hour revocation notifications described in Section 3.7) are sent to your verified channels.
  • Reply address on email you send through Tether. When you send an invitation, a request, a meal plan or a contact card through Tether, your verified email address is the reply address on those emails (see Section 4.1).

The dates your email and phone were verified are stored on your account record. Verification status does not result in publication of your email or phone to other users (see Section 3.1), with one exception: the people you send an invitation, a request, a meal plan or a contact card to through Tether see your verified email address as the reply address on those emails (see Section 4.1).

Browser-assisted email verification. On some web pages (signing up to bring a meal, and the early-access request form), a supporting browser can prove that the email address you typed belongs to the mailbox account you are already signed in to, without sending you a code or a link. When your browser offers this, we receive a short-lived signed statement from your mailbox provider naming that address, we check its signature, and we record only that the address was verified and when. We never receive your mailbox password, and the statement itself is not stored. Every other browser and mailbox keeps the emailed confirmation.

Being listed as someone's family member. If another Tether user lists you as a family member on their contact card and you are a Tether user, the people they share that card with may see that you are on Tether and may send you a connection request. As with all connection requests, this is governed by your connection-request settings, and you can decline any request. Your phone number and email address are never disclosed to those people through the other user's card.

2.8 Device-Integrity Signals

Each time the app launches, it checks on your device whether the device has been jailbroken (iOS) or rooted (Android), and if so it refuses to run. The result is not stored on our servers or sent to our analytics provider. If a device is locked out, or the check cannot run, our error-monitoring provider receives only the reason and the platform so we can spot false alarms. See Section 3.8.

2.9 Pre-Account and Phone-Verification Data

Early-access requests (tetherup.app/request-access and in the app). During our soft-launch period, anyone may submit a request for access on our website, or in the iPhone app when the number they enter has not been invited yet, by entering their name (first name in the app), mobile phone number, email address, and (optionally) where they heard about us. For website requests we also record the request's IP address and user-agent string for abuse prevention. The app accepts requests only from a genuine copy of Tether confirmed with Apple's App Attest service: it sends an app-integrity key identifier and a signature for each request, and for abuse prevention we keep that key identifier and its public key — not linked to an account, phone number, or email address — deleting them after 90 days without use. To limit how often requests can be made from the app, we also count requests under hashed forms of the IP address and phone number and under the key identifier itself, and a nightly cleanup deletes those counts once they are more than a day old. The app remembers on your device that it submitted a request for that number. Until an account is created, the request itself is stored in our access-request records with the request's review status. When you create an account using the same phone number, the request remains in our records as part of the eligibility audit trail. You may request deletion of an unfulfilled request at any time by emailing support@tetherup.app.

Phone-number carrier verification. Before sending a sign-in code to a new phone number, we ask Telnyx (see Section 4.2) whether it is a mobile number. We don't send codes to voice-over-IP, landline, or toll-free numbers, which are commonly used for automated sign-ups. We keep the result (carrier, line type, and country) under a hashed form of the number rather than your account, so we don't repeat the lookup. If you believe a mobile number was misclassified, email support@tetherup.app.

SMS delivery records. For up to 90 days, we retain a service-only dispatch record so retries cannot send duplicate codes and so we can confirm delivery. It contains a hashed form of the destination phone number, its allowed-country category, provider message/event identifiers, status and error codes, and timestamps. It does not contain the raw phone number, the one-time code, or the message text. When a text was about changing your account's phone number, its record is linked to the record of that change (see Section 3.7); otherwise it is not linked to an account.

2.10 Calendar Data

If you enable Tether's calendar availability feature, the app reads your device calendar — using the calendar permission you grant your operating system — to determine when you are busy or free. We store only the start and end times of your busy periods on our servers; we do not receive or store event titles, locations, attendee lists, descriptions, notes, or any other content from your calendar entries. Calendar entries are read on your device, and only the resulting busy/free time ranges are transmitted to us. The app also shows your own calendar events — titles, times and locations — to you on the Plan tab. That view is built on your phone; those details are never sent to us or shown to anyone else. If you choose, the app can also add Tether events to your device calendar; this happens on your device. Busy/free ranges are deleted automatically 14 days after they end.

When you enable the calendar availability feature, your busy/free times are shared by default with the circles you create from Tether's standard templates — Close, Community, and Professional circles each include calendar availability in their default shared fields. You can change what any individual circle sees through that circle's Edit Permissions screen, stop sharing with a circle, or turn off calendar access entirely in the app's settings, at any time. Circles see time ranges only — never the underlying calendar entries. Turning the feature off deletes the busy-block data we have stored for you. We do not sell your calendar data, share it with third parties, or use it for advertising.


3. How We Use Your Information

3.1 Core Service Functionality

  • Account Management: Create and manage your account, authenticate your identity, and maintain session security
  • Contact Synchronization: Sync contact data across your devices using server-assigned sync versioning for conflict resolution
  • Live Updates: Automatically update contact information when your connections update their Tether profiles, in accordance with each user's privacy-tier settings and on a best-effort basis — see Section 10.9 of the Terms of Service for the disclaimer on reliance on live updates
  • Connection Suggestions: We may suggest people you could connect with, based on the phone numbers saved in your contact lists and on the connections you share. The process never automatically creates or accepts a connection. A user must send a request and the other user must accept it. Section 3.9 describes what a suggestion shows and how to turn suggestions to friends of your connections off.
  • Event Management: Create, manage, and share events; send invitations via email; manage RSVPs; assign co-hosts; and capture per-RSVP snapshots of guest name and email at invite time for re-invitation to follow-up events
  • Life Updates: Optionally publish "life update" posts (e.g., birth announcements, milestones) to your circles, which sends a push notification to people in those circles, and show you which of those people have seen each post
  • Duplicate Detection: Suggest possible duplicate contacts using fixed scoring rules that compare names, phone numbers, and email addresses (see Section 3.2)
  • Data Organization: Enable organizing contacts into privacy-tier circles, custom circles, and shared directories (institutional or social mode)
  • Group Communication: Open your device's email or Messages composer with destinations from a circle or people you selected, after showing the exact recipients and channel disclosure
  • Mailing Tools: Plan household or individual mailing rows, preserve envelope names and keep-separate choices, and export the format you choose
  • Address Requests: At your direction, ask non-users in a private circle to confirm or add a mailing address, apply an unchanged response to your contact record, or hold it for your review if the record changed in the meantime
  • Search and Filtering: Provide fast, accurate search across your contacts
  • Import and Export: Facilitate importing contacts from external services and exporting your data in vCard, CSV, or JSON formats

3.2 Automated Suggestions

We use fixed rules for:

  • Duplicate Detection: On your device, the app compares names, phone numbers, and email addresses using fixed scoring rules to suggest possible duplicates. If you dismiss a suggestion, we remember that pair so it is not suggested again.
  • Your "no" answers: When you answer no to a suggestion, we keep that answer with your account and sync it to your devices so we don't ask again. That covers two cards that are different people, two people who don't share a household ("Keep separate", including answering that a child doesn't live with a parent), two people who aren't family ("Not family"), and "Not now" on a person we suggest you connect with. Each answer names the two cards, or for a suggested person the two accounts. So that it still applies after an edit, a re-import or a merge, it can also keep the phone numbers, email addresses or social-profile handles that told the two cards apart. Those values are removed when the card they came from is permanently deleted, "Delete all contacts" removes every answer about your cards, and deleting your account removes all of them.
  • Circle Suggestions: Fixed rules look at contact details — such as a shared family name, a saved birthday, or a work email address — to suggest a circle. We count how often you accept or decline each kind of suggestion and show that kind more or less often accordingly. Suggestions are advisory; nothing changes until you act.
  • Spam and Fraud Prevention: Automated rules such as rate limits and carrier checks help detect abuse.

We do not make solely automated decisions about you that have legal or similarly significant effects, except for security measures such as rate limiting or suspending an account for abuse. You can ask a person to review any such decision by contacting support@tetherup.app.

3.3 Service Improvement and Analytics

  • Performance Monitoring: Analyze app performance, identify bugs, and improve reliability using pseudonymous, privacy-filtered Sentry events
  • Aggregate Insights: Count how many people use Tether in each ZIP code, based on the address on your own profile, to understand where Tether is used. We use these counts only in aggregate, not to single anyone out
  • Feature Usage: With your explicit consent, understand which features are valuable using a separate pseudonymous analytics identifier that is never your Tether account ID
  • Error Tracking: Collect crash reports and error logs via Sentry after removing account identity, raw URLs, request bodies, authored identifiers, and recognized PII before transmission

We do not use your personal contact data for advertising targeting. We do not sell your data or share it for cross-context behavioral advertising.

3.4 Communications

  • Transactional SMS: OTP authentication codes and security alerts via Telnyx. Required for phone-based authentication and related account-security functionality. You agree to receive these texts by tapping Get Started when you sign up, where the SMS program disclosures appear with the button, or by selecting the unchecked consent box when you change your phone number in Settings. See Section 13.2 and our SMS Terms.
  • Transactional Email: Critical service messages (including account security notices and sign-in codes) via Resend
  • User-Directed Email: Event invitations and mailing-address requests that a Tether user affirmatively asks us to deliver after reviewing recipients and content. Address-request recipients receive purpose-specific opt-out links; those preferences are separate from event and critical service messages. Address requests skip people already on Tether and never send automatic reminders.
  • Replies to Email You Send: When you send an invitation, a request, a meal plan or a contact card through Tether, the email address on your account is included in those emails as the reply address, so the people you send them to can reply to you directly and will see that address. Replies go to you, not to Tether (see Section 4.1).
  • Marketing: We do not currently send marketing email or SMS. If we start, we will ask for any consent the law requires and include an unsubscribe option in every message.
  • Account Support: Responses to support requests and feedback

3.5 Security and Fraud Prevention

  • Rate limiting authentication attempts and API calls
  • Managing authenticated device sessions so you can inspect and revoke access
  • Identifying unusual patterns that may indicate unauthorized access
  • Maintaining audit logs of data modifications for security and accountability

3.6 Legal and Compliance

  • Comply with applicable laws, regulations, legal processes, or governmental requests
  • Enforce our Terms of Service
  • Protect the rights, property, and safety of Tether, our users, and the public

3.7 Phone and Email Changes

When you change the phone number or email address on your account, we keep a short-lived record of the change — the old and new identifier and when the undo window ends — so the change can be reversed. On a best-effort basis we send security notices, each with a link to undo the change within 24 hours: for a phone change, a text to your previous phone number and an email to your verified email address; for an email change, notices to your previous email address and your verified email. Adding an email to an account that had none leaves nothing to undo, so its notices carry no undo link.

Undoing a change restores the previous identifier, locks the account until you verify your identity, and signs out every device. A phone change also signs out every device; an email change signs out your other devices. If you are signed in with an email code, you must sign in with your phone before changing your email. We keep records of these changes for security and delete them on the schedule in Section 6.1. Records of the texts we send about a change are kept as described in Section 2.9.

We process this information to keep your account secure. These safeguards cannot be turned off, although replying STOP still stops all Tether SMS until you reply START.

3.8 Device-Integrity Checks

At app launch, the Service runs an on-device jailbreak/root check. If the device is detected as compromised, the app renders a lockout screen and does not function. The result is not stored on Tether's servers and is not sent to our analytics provider. A security event naming the reason code is sent to our error-tracking provider when the device is locked out or the check cannot run, so that false-positive lockouts are detectable; see Section 2.8. We use this check to protect your account and the contact data stored on your device.

3.9 Connection Suggestions

We may suggest people you could connect with on Tether: people who have each other's phone number saved; people whose phone number you have saved, even if they have not saved yours; and people who share several connections with you. A suggestion shows your name, photo, and handle. When we suggest you to someone because you share connections, they see how many connections you share, never who those connections are. You can turn this off in Settings > Privacy & sharing > Who can reach you > Suggestions ("Suggest me to friends of my connections"); it is on by default. There's no public feed and no open people search: to find you and send you a connection request, someone needs your @handle, or your name together with your verified phone number or email address. A suggestion never creates or accepts a connection: one person must send a request and the other must accept it. Blocking someone removes you from each other's suggestions and prevents a connection. Your connection-request setting limits who can send you a request and who we suggest you to; it does not stop someone who knows your @handle, or your name together with your verified phone number or email address, from finding you.


4. How We Share Your Information

4.1 Information Sharing You Control

With Other Tether Users (Sharing Tier Settings): When you connect with another Tether user, you control what they see through your sharing-tier settings. There are three tiers — Close, Community, and Professional — and each has a default set of fields that are shared. You can override the defaults on a per-circle basis from Settings > Privacy & sharing > What new people see. The default-shared fields for each tier, as currently configured in the app, are:

  • Close (family and inner circle): name, avatar, handle, nickname, bio, pronouns, company, job title, department, home and work phone, personal and work email, home and work address, social profiles (LinkedIn, Instagram, X/Twitter, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, GitHub, Pinterest, WhatsApp, Snapchat, Telegram, Venmo), personal and work websites, birthday, anniversary, custom dates, family members, and calendar availability (busy/free times, when the calendar feature is enabled).
  • Community (friends and acquaintances): name, avatar, handle, nickname, bio, pronouns, company, job title, department, personal email, social profiles (LinkedIn, Instagram, X/Twitter, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, GitHub, Pinterest, WhatsApp, Snapchat, Telegram, Venmo), personal website, birthday, and calendar availability (busy/free times, when the calendar feature is enabled). Note: your mobile number is always shared with every connection at every tier — it is part of the always-on identity floor (name, photo, handle, nickname, mobile) and cannot be withheld. Other phone numbers and postal addresses are NOT shared by default; you can opt in to share those on a per-circle basis.
  • Professional (work contacts): name, avatar, handle, nickname, bio, company, job title, department, work phone, work email, work address, LinkedIn, GitHub, work website, and calendar availability (busy/free times, when the calendar feature is enabled).

Health fields are never shared by default. The app asks for your consent before you add your own allergies or dietary preferences. Sharing them needs a separate consent: you can choose to share them with a particular circle only after agreeing to that consent in the app. You can withdraw either consent at any time in Settings. Withdrawing either one stops Tether sharing your health fields, but it does not delete health fields already on your profile; you can delete those yourself on your profile.

These defaults are set by the Service and may be revised in future releases, in which case this Section will be updated. You can review and change what each of your circles shares at any time in the app under Circles → circle settings.

Family members on your card. When "family members" is among the fields you share with a circle, the connections in that circle may see, for each family member you have linked: their name, your relationship to them, and contact type. For a family member who is not a Tether user, this may also include that person's primary phone number and email address as stored in your address book. For a family member who is a Tether user, their phone and email are never shared through your card — instead, your connection may see that the person is on Tether and may send them a connection request directly (subject to that person's own connection-request settings). Children's direct contact details (phone and email) are never shared through your card. Because this shares information about other people, you are responsible for having any consents required by law to do so (see our Terms of Service).

Household links. A household link exists only between two adults who are already connected on Tether and who each explicitly confirm it; a recorded family relationship, a shared surname, or a shared address never creates one. Either adult can end the link at any time, and it ends automatically when either of you removes or blocks the connection or deletes their account. While the link is active, people connected to both of you may see that the two of you are a household. The link shares nothing else: your contacts, lists, notes and profile fields stay your own unless you separately choose to share them.

Household coordination on invitations. An event host or meal organizer can invite two adults as one household, and an adult with a confirmed household link can add their partner to an invitation the host allows it on. Within such a group, either adult can see and change the other's attendance, party size, named dependents and household sign-ups for that invitation only; the change is recorded with who made it and, when made through a personal link, that the link was used rather than a verified account. Private RSVP notes, dietary details and consent choices are never shown to the other adult unless you share them yourself. Either adult can separate the invitation at any time ("Not my household"); the host can do the same; and the group ends automatically when the household link ends or the connection is removed or blocked. Every individual answer survives a separation. The other adult receives a short notice of your changes, always for changes to their own answer and, unless they turn it off, for other household changes.

Unassigned contacts. When a new connection is created and you have not yet assigned the connected user to a circle, a separate "Unassigned Defaults" setting determines what is shared until you make an assignment. The Unassigned Defaults are configured in Settings > Privacy & sharing > What new people see and are distinct from the Community tier defaults above.

Data on Disconnect: When you block or remove a connection, the details that person shared with you through Tether are removed from your device the next time the app syncs. Anything you saved about them yourself stays in your address book.

Events and Co-hosts: Co-hosts can see only the display name and email address you attached to each guest invitation (captured as a per-RSVP snapshot at invite time) — not any other information from your private address book. When a host or co-host reuses a past event's guest list for a future event, guests not already in the inviter's address book may be saved as new contacts from the snapshotted name and email, tagged with import source past_event_invite.

Your email address on email you send through Tether. When you send an invitation, a request, a meal plan or a contact card through Tether, the email address on your account is included as the reply address in the emails sent for you: event invitations, reminders, updates, cancellations, waitlist and what-to-bring notices and household updates; directory invitations; the notices and reminders a meal plan you organize sends to its helpers; mailing-address requests and their reminder. The people you send them to can reply to you directly and will see that address, whether or not they use Tether. Replies go to your inbox, not to Tether; we do not receive or store them. This applies only once you have verified your email address; until then, and while your account is locked or being deleted, those emails have no reply address and a reply to one is not read. These emails never use Tether support as their reply address. Your address goes only to people you, or a co-host or co-organizer of your event or plan, chose to email: someone who adds themselves to your event with its share link is not shown it, and neither is the confirmation or link a guest asks for. For an event it is always the host's address, even when a co-host sends the email, and for a meal plan the organizer's; it is not added to the copies sent to you, your co-hosts or your co-organizers. If you change your email address, later emails use the new one. Emails already delivered stay in their recipients' mailboxes with the reply address they were sent with, including after you change your address or delete your account.

4.2 Service Providers

We share information with third-party service providers who perform services on our behalf. Our service providers may use your information only to provide their services to us, and they must protect it.

ProviderPurposeData Shared
Supabase Inc.Database, auth, file storage, real-time sync, edge functions (AWS, United States)All user data stored in database
Cloudflare, Inc.Website hosting, network and DNS services, the secure gateway the app uses to reach our servers, bot protection (Turnstile) on web forms, and R2 backup storageWeb request metadata; for app requests passing through the gateway, request metadata such as your account identifier, IP address, which part of the service the request is for, and timing, which we use for security and reliability; logical-database archives we encrypt before upload; backup copies of Storage object bytes (including private photos), which Cloudflare encrypts at rest; and minimal erasure receipts that record only the schema version and deletion time
GitHub, Inc. (GitHub Actions)Scheduled database backups. GitHub Actions schedules the backup job and keeps its logs and evidence; for now the job itself runs on a self-hosted runner, a machine that Tether operatesA database snapshot is processed briefly in plaintext on the runner while it streams from pg_dump into age encryption. The encrypted archive is stored in Cloudflare R2, and GitHub keeps only digest-only backup evidence, not database content.
SentryPseudonymous error tracking and performance monitoring with egress filteringCrash logs, error events, bounded device/app context, and generated operational correlation IDs; no direct Tether account ID, raw URL, request body, or raw contact data
PostHogConsent-only product analytics (events only; no contact data; property filter enforced at the SDK boundary)Event names, allowlisted traits (subscription tier, signup date, contact count, circle count, cohort week), a random pseudonymous analytics ID that is never the Tether account ID, app version, environment
RevenueCatSubscription billing via App Store / Google Play and entitlement updates to our backendYour opaque Tether account UUID, subscription status, purchase events, billing issue events
TelnyxSMS OTP delivery; SMS notification to the prior number when phone changes; pre-signup carrier lookup (Number Lookup API) to confirm the number is a real mobile line (see Section 2.9)Phone number, OTP body, security-notification body, carrier-lookup query (phone number only — result cached in our database)
ResendTransactional email (event invitations, event reminders, RSVP notifications, circle invites, mailing-address requests, phone-change and email-change security notifications, and similar)Email addresses, sender/recipient metadata, and the content you choose to send
ExpoPush notification delivery and over-the-air app updatesPush tokens; generic notification envelopes containing an opaque owner-bound delivery nonce, request ID, type, and expiry, which do not contain contact/event names, authored text, entity identifiers, or security-action URLs; and basic device and app-version information for updates
MicrosoftContact import from Outlook / Microsoft 365 via OAuth 2.0 + Microsoft Graph API — only when you choose to connect a Microsoft accountYour Microsoft sign-in (OAuth) and the Outlook contacts you import via the Contacts.Read scope: names, phone numbers, emails, addresses, and notes
jail-monkey (on-device)Device-integrity check (jailbreak / root detection)None to jail-monkey — the check runs locally. A lockout or a failed check emits a reason code to our error-tracking provider (Section 2.8)
Apple Inc. / Google LLCApp distribution, in-app purchase, push-notification transit; contact import (Apple Contacts / Google People API on connect); map tiles and address geocoding when you view or save a location; Apple App Attest confirming that an in-app access request comes from a genuine copy of TetherPer their respective developer terms and privacy policies; for contact import, the contacts you choose to import; for maps, approximate location/viewport coordinates; for App Attest, the attestation your iPhone requests from Apple for the app's key, which we verify ourselves
Google LLCWeb fonts on our website and in our emails; fetching a Google Sheets link you choose to import; the network check the app uses to tell whether you're onlineIP address and browser information when fonts load; the sheet you import; your device's IP address and basic request details for network checks, with no account or contact data

4.3 Analytics and Monitoring Technologies

We use the following analytics and monitoring tools:

Sentry (Error & Performance Monitoring): Sentry receives crash reports, error events, and performance traces. We do not attach your account to them, and we filter out contact details, message content, and other personal information before they are sent. Governed by Sentry's Data Processing Agreement.

PostHog (Product Analytics — Events Only): PostHog stays off unless you turn on analytics in Settings > Privacy & sharing > Who can reach you, and leaving it off never reduces what the app can do. When on, it receives filtered in-app events — never contact details, messages, notes, or addresses — tied to a random analytics ID that is not your Tether account ID. Session replay and automatic capture are off. If you turn analytics off, future collection stops; events already sent are handled under PostHog's retention settings. We use PostHog's U.S. cloud under its Data Processing Agreement.

RevenueCat (Subscription Analytics): RevenueCat receives your opaque Tether account UUID, purchase events, and subscription status updates necessary to process transactions, restore access, and provide subscription analytics (conversion rates, churn, subscription lifecycle events). We do not send your address book to RevenueCat. We retain the subscription projection needed to apply plan limits and support purchase issues.

Cloudflare Web Analytics (Web Properties): Our tetherup.app web properties use Cloudflare's privacy-respecting RUM analytics, which does not use cookies and does not build behavioral user profiles. No data from the mobile app passes through Cloudflare Web Analytics.

We do not use Google Analytics, Facebook Pixel, TikTok Pixel, Meta Audience Network, or any advertising-oriented analytics or attribution SDK in the Tether mobile app. We do not place advertising cookies or tracking pixels on our website. We do not use Apple's App Tracking Transparency-gated identifiers (IDFA) and the app declares "No, app does not use advertising ID" on Google Play.

4.4 Advertising

We do not sell your personal data to advertisers. We do not share your personal data with advertising networks for behavioral targeting. We do not receive compensation for your data from any advertising partner. Tether generates revenue through subscription fees only.

4.5 Business Transfers

If Tether is involved in a merger, acquisition, financing, reorganization, bankruptcy, or sale of company assets, your information may be transferred as part of the transaction. We will provide at least 30 days' notice before your information becomes subject to a materially different privacy policy.

4.6 Legal Requirements

We may disclose your information if required by law or in response to valid requests by public authorities (e.g., court orders, subpoenas, national security or law enforcement requests). We may also disclose when we believe in good faith that disclosure is necessary to comply with applicable law, enforce our Terms, protect against fraud or security risks, or protect the rights or safety of Tether, our users, or the public.

When permitted by applicable law and not prohibited by the legal demand itself, we will: provide you with prompt notice of any legal demand for your data; review requests for legal sufficiency; and, where appropriate, challenge overbroad or improper requests.

4.7 Professional Advisors

We may disclose personal information to professional advisors (lawyers, auditors, bankers, insurers) where necessary in the course of professional services they render to us, subject to confidentiality obligations.

4.8 Aggregated and De-identified Data

We may share aggregated, anonymized, or de-identified information that cannot reasonably be used to identify you, for business purposes including research, service improvement, and industry reporting.

4.9 With Your Consent

We may share your information for any other purpose with your explicit, informed consent.


5. Data Security

5.1 Security Measures

We use industry-standard safeguards designed to protect your information, including:

  • encryption of data in transit and at rest, including the data Tether stores on your device;
  • sign-in with one-time codes instead of passwords, with limits on repeated attempts;
  • access controls that keep each account's data separate, and limited internal access to user data;
  • security notices and a 24-hour undo window when your phone number or email changes (Section 3.7);
  • removing Tether's data from a device when you sign out on it (see "Signing out" below);
  • refusing to run on jailbroken or rooted devices (Section 3.8); and
  • monitoring, backups, and incident-response procedures.

Sessions. We do not impose a fixed session lifetime or inactivity timeout. A session continues unless you sign out, revoke the device or session, delete your account, or it is invalidated for a security or account-administration reason.

Signing out. When you sign out on a device, Tether removes its data from that device before anyone else can sign in there. If anything on it has not synced yet, Tether first tells you that signing out will discard it, and you can stay signed in instead. A device can also be signed out without you choosing it there: from the Devices screen on another device, or when a security or account change ends its session. If that device holds changes that have not synced, Tether keeps its encrypted copy of your Tether data on it, closed, for up to 40 days, so that signing back in with the same account sends those changes. No one else can open it. It is erased when a different account signs in on that device or, once the 40 days have passed, the next time the app opens. A device with nothing left to sync is cleared as it would be when you sign out.

We review and update these measures as the Service and the threats it faces change.

5.2 Security Breach Notification

In the event of a security breach involving your personal information, we will:

  • Investigate and confirm the scope of the breach as promptly as possible
  • Notify affected users without undue delay and, where required by law notify the appropriate authorities
  • Provide breach notification via email and/or in-app notification describing the nature of the breach, categories of data involved, and steps we are taking
  • Cooperate with applicable regulatory authorities

We keep a record of every security breach involving personal information, including our assessment of whether notice was required, for as long as the law requires.

5.3 Limitations

No method of transmission over the internet or electronic storage is 100% secure. While we strive to use commercially acceptable means to protect your information, we cannot guarantee absolute security.


6. Data Retention

6.1 Active Account Data Retention Schedule

Data CategoryRetention Period
Contact dataWhile account is active; until contact is deleted
Account informationWhile account is active
Sync transactions24 hours
Change logs (audit)90 days
Soft-deleted contacts60 days, then permanently deleted by a daily maintenance job. A contact you merged into another contact is kept for as long as that surviving contact exists, so the merge stays reversible; it is hard-deleted on a later run of the same job once the surviving contact is itself deleted.
Event guest entries (name, email, phone number if the guest adds one, response, party size, notes — including guests without an account)Kept with the event for its host. A guest's personal response link stops working 30 days after the event ends. Deleted 14 days after the host deletes the event, when the host deletes their account, or on request to privacy@tetherup.app
Meal-plan sign-ups (name, email, what you're bringing, messages)Until 30 days after the plan's last meal; a nightly cleanup then removes names, emails, meal descriptions and messages. We keep a record of the plan and which Tether accounts took part, without those details. Deleted with the organizer's account
Meal-plan email unsubscribe linksNothing is stored for a link: it is signed, and it names only the delivery record of the email it came in (see "Email delivery records" below). It keeps working for as long as that record is kept. The plan's cleanup, or the organizer deleting the plan or their account, does not end it sooner than 60 days after the email was sent; the record goes sooner only if you delete your own account or ask us to erase your email address, or if the sign-up it was sent for is linked to an account that is deleted
Web agreement records (the Terms and Privacy Policy versions agreed to, when, and for which action)Kept with the event or meal plan they relate to and deleted with it
Push tokensDeleted when you sign out or your session ends; deactivated after 90 days unused and deleted after 180 days; deleted with your account
Error/crash logs (Sentry)Kept under our error-monitoring provider's retention settings, with personal information filtered out
Secure-gateway request logs (Cloudflare: your account identifier, IP address, which part of the service a request is for, and timing)Up to 7 days, then deleted automatically
Product-analytics events (PostHog)Collected only if you turn on analytics; kept under PostHog's retention settings
Address-request response links30 days
Event email unsubscribe linksNothing is stored for a link: it is signed, and it names only the delivery record of the email it came in (see "Email delivery records" below). It keeps working for as long as that record is kept. The host deleting the event or their account, or removing you from the guest list, does not end it sooner than 60 days after the email was sent; the record goes sooner only if you delete your own account or ask us to erase your email address, or if the guest entry it was sent for is linked to an account that is deleted. The page it opens never shows the event's details or the host's name, and is the same page whether or not the host still has an account
Unresolved address-update proposals60 days, then the submitted address is deleted
Address-request delivery recordsRecipient email and name are removed after 13 months; the remaining request ledger is deleted after 24 months. Applied or rejected submitted-address payloads are cleared immediately.
Email delivery records (which email, sent at whose request, to which address, when, and whether it was delivered)The recipient's email address is removed 90 days after the email was queued, keeping only a hashed form so unsubscribes and bounces still apply; the record is deleted after 400 days. The record of an email that was sent, or may have been sent, is not deleted sooner than 60 days after it was sent because its sender, event, directory, guest entry or meal plan was deleted, so the recipient's unsubscribe link keeps working. If the person who sent it deletes their account, the record is kept on this schedule with their account, and any wording of theirs it held, removed from it; records of their email that was never sent are deleted with the account. A record is deleted sooner when its recipient deletes their own account or asks us to erase their email address: we then delete the records of email addressed to their account or to its email address, and of email sent, to whatever address, for a guest entry, meal sign-up or directory invitation that is linked to their account, including email someone else had queued for them that had not been sent yet. If you unsubscribe and then undo it, a note of what you had unsubscribed from and when you undid it is kept with that email's record and deleted with it
Email unsubscribe choices (a hashed form of your email address and what you unsubscribed from; never the address itself)Kept until you undo the choice or the event, directory or sender it names is deleted. A choice to stop all optional email, or all address requests, names none of those and is kept. Deleting an account at that address does not remove these choices, so they keep being honored
Email bounce and spam-report list (a hashed form of an email address that bounced or reported our email as spam, the reason, and when; never the address itself)Not deleted on a schedule or with an account, so that we never email that address again. When our email provider releases an address, the entry is kept as a record of the release
Email provider event log (for each email our provider reports on: whether it was delivered, delayed, bounced or reported as spam, the provider's reason codes, and a hashed form of the address; never the address itself)90 days
Email send confirmations (when you confirm that you know the people you're emailing: the wording you agreed to, when, and a hashed form of the list it covered, never their addresses)Kept as a record of that confirmation; your account is unlinked from it when you delete your account
Health-field consentsKept as a record of your choice for as long as the law requires
Pending account-change records (phone / email / sign-in notice)Live records: up to 24 hours (revocation window). Terminal records (committed or revoked): purged by the daily maintenance job, no fewer than 30 days after the terminal event.
Undo links for phone and email changesDeleted with the related change record
Phone-number change records (previous and new number, a recovery email if you gave one, and links to the texts sent about the change)Kept while the change is in progress or under review, then deleted 90 days after its last update
Account-lockout recordsWhile account is locked; preserved in audit log after recovery for security and forensics purposes
Billing history (your plan, when it changed, and what your app store reported)While your account exists; deleted with your account. Apple and Google keep their own records of purchases made through their stores
Lifetime inventory receiptMinimal durable purchase-count record; account association removed on account deletion (see Section 6.2)

6.2 Account Deletion

When you request account deletion (Settings > Danger zone > Delete account):

You can also ask us to delete your account by emailing privacy@tetherup.app from the email address on your account (we will verify the request). Deleting your account does not cancel an App Store or Google Play subscription; cancel it in your app store's subscription settings.

Immediate Actions:

  • Your account enters a 30-day cooling-off period. Your phone number, email, and handle stay yours for those 30 days. To keep your account, sign in within the 30 days and choose Keep my account
  • Your profile becomes inaccessible to other users
  • You are logged out of all devices
  • Tether's data is erased from the device you used
  • Events and meal plans you run pass to a cohost or co-organizer if they have one; otherwise your upcoming events are cancelled and meal plans end, and everyone involved is told. Your seats at other people's events are released, and your pending connection requests are withdrawn
  • Keeping your account within the 30 days restores your account and your profile. It does not hand back anything deletion passed on or ended: events and meal plans passed to a cohost or co-organizer, cancelled events and ended meal plans, released seats and withdrawn requests are not recoverable

After 30-Day Cooling Period:

  • Personal data about you held on other people's records, which no account link can reach, is erased permanently: any pending access request in your name, directory invitations addressed to your email, your guest entries on other people's events (the entry is removed, so the host's guest list no longer shows you and your seat is released), referral attribution identifying your verified email, and your details inside administrative audit records
  • All contact data permanently deleted from our servers by automated cleanup
  • Your account information permanently deleted
  • All sub-entity data (phones, emails, addresses, social profiles) cascade-deleted
  • Your directory memberships end, and your shared directory contributions are anonymized or removed
  • Any household link you hold ends, and the other adult is told it ended, without being told why

During the 30 days your directory memberships and any household link stay in place; they end only when deletion completes.

Tether keeps no standing connection to a service you imported contacts from: an import signs in to that service once, and Tether does not store the sign-in, so there is nothing to revoke. If you signed in to another service to import contacts, you can remove Tether from that account's connected apps in its own settings.

Data We Retain After Deletion:

Most data is permanently erased at the end of the 30-day cooling period. A limited set of records is deliberately retained for the lawful purposes below. Where a record is kept, it is de-identified wherever de-identification still serves the purpose:

  • Onboarding-trial claim. While your account exists, a service-only record keyed by its immutable account UUID prevents that account from claiming the onboarding trial twice. Separately, to enforce the one-trial-per-phone rule while allowing genuinely reassigned numbers to become eligible again, we keep a coded form of the verified phone number for 12 months after a trial claim. This receipt contains no raw phone number or account UUID and is not available to app users.
  • Lifetime purchase count. To keep the limited Founders Lifetime sales count accurate, we retain a minimal record of each completed production store purchase for as long as the Lifetime offering and its purchase history are maintained. It contains a coded transaction identifier, store, purchase time, refund state, and observation time. Your account association is removed when the account is permanently deleted. We do not keep your name, phone, email, raw transaction identifier, or contact data in this record. Deletion, transfer, refund, or revocation does not reopen a sold place. The coded identifier can still be matched against a known store transaction; it is not anonymous data.
  • Carrier-verification cache. The carrier facts about your phone line (carrier name, line type, country) stored in our carrier-lookup cache are keyed by phone-number hash, not your account, and survive deletion because they describe the line, not you (see Section 2.9).
  • Anonymized health-consent record. If you gave a health-field consent (to add your health fields or to share them), the record that you agreed on a given device — including the consent version and timestamp — is retained as a legal audit trail with your user ID removed, so it cannot be used to re-identify you.
  • Deletion audit log. A pseudonymous record (your account's internal identifier, deletion timestamp, per-table row counts, and per-processor cleanup status) is retained to demonstrate that erasure occurred. No name, email, or phone is kept.
  • Handle hold. If you released a username/handle, a hold on that handle is retained for approximately six months to prevent immediate impersonation; the identifier of the releasing account is removed.
  • Released phone numbers. When a phone number leaves an account (you change your number, we change it at your request, or the account is permanently deleted), we keep a hashed form of that number and the date it was released for 12 months. This stops whoever is given that number next from being matched to the contact cards other people saved for its previous holder. The record holds no account identifier and is not available to app users. It is deleted automatically after 12 months, the same period after which a reassigned number counts as new for the onboarding trial.
  • Blocks outlive the blocked account. If someone has blocked you and you delete your account, we keep a one-way coded form (a hash) of the phone number and verified email address your account last had, attached to their block. We never keep the number or address itself. This keeps the block working if that address, or that number within 12 months of leaving your account, is used for a new account: the new account cannot send the person who blocked you a connection request, and that person cannot invite it by that number or address. After 12 months a reassigned number counts as new, and the block no longer applies to it; the coded email address keeps applying. The person who blocked you sees it in their blocked list as "Deleted account" and can lift it at any time; it is also removed when they delete their own account. It is not part of your data export, because it belongs to the other person's block.
  • Export audit record. If you exported your data, a pseudonymous record of the export (event counts and timestamp, with email, IP address, and user-agent removed) is retained.
  • Delivery records of email sent to other people at your request. For an invitation, reminder, update or request that was sent, or may have been sent, before your account was deleted, the recipient's delivery record (which kind of email, when, to which address, and whether it was delivered) is kept on the schedule in Section 6.1, so that the unsubscribe link in that email keeps working for them. Your account is removed from the record, together with any wording of yours it held, such as the names of items on a bring list. The record never holds your own email address, including the reply address on email you sent through Tether (Section 4.1); the emails themselves, already in their recipients' mailboxes, still show it. Records of your email that was never sent are deleted. Records of email sent to you are deleted as well: email addressed to your account or to its email address, and email sent, to whatever address, for a guest entry, meal sign-up or directory invitation that is linked to your account, including email someone else had queued for you that had not been sent yet. Email that no such link ties to your account cannot be tied to you and follows the schedule in Section 6.1.
  • Records kept under a hashed email address. These hold a hashed form of an email address and never the address itself, and are not removed when an account at that address is deleted: unsubscribe choices, the bounce and spam-report list, and the email provider event log, each on the schedule in Section 6.1; and, if Undo was used on an unsubscribe page, the count of those uses, which a nightly cleanup deletes once it is more than a day old.
  • Backups. Database backups are encrypted and are automatically deleted within 90 days. Backup copies of stored files, such as photos, are kept while the original file exists. When the original is deleted, including when your account is deleted, its backup copy is deleted too, but no sooner than seven days later, because each backup copy is locked against changes for its first eight days. We retry that deletion until our storage provider confirms the copy is gone, and our team is alerted if it is not gone within 90 days. Backups are not used to restore a deleted account.
  • Reports. A report you make, or a report about you, is kept after either account is deleted so we can act on abuse and meet legal obligations. It holds the reason, any note the reporter wrote, what was reported, and the reported person's name and handle as they were when the report was made; the account links are removed.
  • Erasure receipts. Until our backup storage confirms that an immutable erasure receipt has been written, a service-only fulfillment job retains your deleted account UUID, then clears it once the receipt is verified. The receipt itself holds only the schema version and deletion time under a coded key.
  • Short-lived queues. Transient rate-limit counters (keyed by account ID, phone hash, or IP address for up to 24 hours) and one-shot sign-in admission tickets (keyed by identity hash for up to 7 days) age out automatically on their cleanup schedules.
  • Invite-list decisions. During our invite-only access period, phone numbers on the invite allow/block list are retained by phone number with operator links removed when an account is deleted.
  • SMS delivery records. Service-only OTP dispatch records keyed by phone-number hash are retained for up to 90 days for duplicate-send prevention and delivery confirmation (see Section 2.9).
  • Purchase records. Tether deletes its billing history for you when your account is deleted. Apple and Google, which sell Tether+ and Lifetime to you, keep their own records of your purchases under their own policies, and you can see them in your store's purchase history. Apart from the Lifetime purchase count above, Tether keeps no purchase records. If a legal dispute or investigation involves your account, we keep the records it needs until that matter ends.
  • Aggregated, de-identified data. Statistics that no longer identify you may be retained indefinitely. This does not include the content of your contacts, notes, photos, or health fields.

Third-Party Processor Residuals. Data already transmitted to our subprocessors before you deleted your account is deleted according to each subprocessor's own retention schedule, which we do not directly control. As part of account cleanup we ask our subscription processor (RevenueCat) to delete the customer record associated with your account, then check that it is gone. Acceptance of a deletion request alone is not confirmation of completed deletion. Until we can confirm it, we retry about every six hours for 30 days after your account is permanently deleted, and if it is still not confirmed after 7 days our team is alerted so a person can resolve it. After 30 days the automatic retries stop, and the deletion audit log records that the deletion was not confirmed. We record the residual-cleanup status for each processor. Residuals may include: SMS and OTP delivery logs (Telnyx), email delivery logs (Resend), pseudonymous error/performance events that carry no direct Tether account identifier but may retain operational correlation IDs (Sentry), consented product-analytics events keyed to a pseudonymous identifier that Tether does not map to your account (PostHog), and generic push-delivery receipts sent through Expo. These age out on each provider's own schedule. See Section 4.2 for the full subprocessor list.

6.3 Inactive Accounts

We may delete an account that has had no sign-in or sync activity for 12 months or more, after giving at least 30 days' notice. Deletion follows Section 6.2. To keep your account, simply sign in before the date in the notice.


7. Your Privacy Rights

7.1 Rights Available to All Users

Regardless of your location, you have the following rights:

  • Access & Portability: Access your contact data at any time through the app. Export all contacts in standard formats (vCard .vcf, CSV, JSON) via Settings > Your data > Download everything (the structured JSON/CSV export includes photo URLs on your records rather than packaging uploaded photo files; save your photos from the app or request them at privacy@tetherup.app). Request a copy of all personal information we hold at privacy@tetherup.app.
  • Correction: Edit your profile and contact data directly in the app. Contact privacy@tetherup.app for corrections you cannot make yourself.
  • Deletion: Delete individual contacts or your entire account through app settings. Request deletion at privacy@tetherup.app.
  • Analytics Choice: Product analytics is disabled by default. Turn it on or off at any time in Settings > Privacy & sharing > Who can reach you without losing app functionality.
  • Opt-Out of Communications: Disable push notifications in device settings. Opt out of non-essential emails via the unsubscribe link. Reply STOP to opt out of all Tether SMS, including authentication codes and security alerts; phone-code sign-in will remain unavailable until you reply START, while a previously verified recovery email remains available for account recovery.

7.2 California Users — CCPA/CPRA

Categories of Personal Information We Collect:

  • Identifiers (name, phone number, email, device ID)
  • Commercial information (subscription tier, purchase history)
  • Internet/electronic activity (usage data, error logs, sync metadata)
  • Professional/employment information (job title, company)
  • User-generated content (contacts, notes, photos)
  • Sensitive Personal Information (SPI): health information (if you add it). We do not collect biometric data.

California Privacy Rights:

  • Right to Know: Disclosure of personal information collected, used, shared, or sold
  • Right to Delete: Deletion of personal information (subject to legal exceptions)
  • Right to Correct: Correction of inaccurate personal information
  • Right to Opt-Out of Sale/Sharing: We do not sell personal information. We do not share personal information for cross-context behavioral advertising.
  • Sensitive Personal Information: We use sensitive personal information only as needed to provide the Service you ask for, so there is no additional use to limit. Questions: privacy@tetherup.app.
  • Right to Non-Discrimination: We will not discriminate against you for exercising your privacy rights.

Your Privacy Choices: Email privacy@tetherup.app to exercise any of these rights.

Global Privacy Control (GPC): Tether does not sell or share personal information for cross-context behavioral advertising, so there is nothing for a GPC signal to opt you out of. If that ever changes we will honor the signal and say so here before the change takes effect.

Do Not Sell or Share: We do not sell personal information to third parties. We do not share personal information for cross-context behavioral advertising. These practices will not change without providing you with at least 15 days' advance notice and the ability to opt out before they take effect.

Shine the Light: We do not share personal information with third parties for their direct marketing purposes. California residents with questions may contact privacy@tetherup.app.

7.3 U.S. State Privacy Rights

Depending on where you live, state privacy laws — including those of California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Indiana, Iowa, Kentucky, Maryland, Minnesota, Montana, Nebraska, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon, Rhode Island, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, and Virginia — may give you the right to:

  • confirm whether we process your personal data and access it;
  • correct it;
  • delete it;
  • get a portable copy;
  • opt out of the sale of personal data, targeted advertising, and profiling that produces significant effects — Tether does none of these;
  • get a list of the categories of third parties (or, where your state requires, the specific third parties) we disclose personal data to; Section 4.2 lists our service providers; and
  • appeal our decision on your request.

Sensitive data. We process sensitive data — or health fields if you choose to add them — only with your consent, and you can withdraw that consent in the app at any time.

Requests and appeals. Email privacy@tetherup.app. We will verify your identity and respond within the time your state's law requires. If we deny your request, you can appeal by replying to our decision or emailing privacy@tetherup.app with the subject "Privacy Rights Appeal." If we deny your appeal, you may contact your state's Attorney General.

7.4 Canadian Users

Tether is not currently offered in Quebec. For users elsewhere in Canada, we handle personal information in accordance with the Personal Information Protection and Electronic Documents Act (PIPEDA) and applicable provincial privacy laws.

  • Privacy Officer: Our Privacy Officer can be reached at privacy@tetherup.app or Tether, LLC, 5900 Balcones Dr Ste 100, Austin, TX 78731, USA.
  • Where your information is stored: Your information is stored and processed in the United States by Tether and the service providers listed in Section 4.2, and may be accessible to courts, law enforcement, and national-security authorities there. You can ask our Privacy Officer about our policies for service providers outside Canada.
  • Complaints: If you are not satisfied with our response, you can contact the Office of the Privacy Commissioner of Canada or your provincial privacy commissioner.

7.5 Authorized Agents

You may designate an authorized agent to submit privacy rights requests on your behalf. We require: (a) written authorization signed by you or a valid power of attorney; and (b) identity verification directly with you (unless you have provided a power of attorney). We may deny requests from agents that do not submit required proof of authorization.


8. Children's Privacy

Tether is for adults 18 and older, and we do not knowingly allow anyone under 18 to create an account. If we learn that someone under 18 has an account, we will delete it. If you believe a minor has an account, contact privacy@tetherup.app.

Parents and guardians may store information about their own children as contacts — for example, in a school directory. That information is managed by the parent or guardian, is not used to contact the child, and is covered by the rest of this Policy.


9. Data About Non-Users

When you use Tether, you may import, store, or share information about people who do not have Tether accounts ("non-users") — including contacts from your address book, event guests, and manually entered contacts.

9.1 How We Handle Non-User Data

  • Phone numbers and email addresses of non-users may be stored in your encrypted Tether address book
  • To suggest connections, we match the phone numbers saved in users' address books. If someone you invited to a circle, event, or meal plan later joins Tether with the same verified phone number or email address, we connect that invitation and any earlier responses or meal sign-ups to their new account. We do not use your contacts to build profiles of people who are not on Tether
  • Non-user contact data is subject to the same security protections as all other Service data
  • A Tether user may ask selected non-users in a private circle to confirm or add a mailing address. We skip people already on Tether, send a private email to each reviewed delivery target, limit and space requests, and permit at most one manual reminder after seven days. The response page offers an optional Tether invitation only after the address response is submitted.
  • An address response is applied automatically only if every covered contact still has the same address fingerprint that was shown when the request was sent. Otherwise the response is held for the address-book owner to review and does not overwrite their records.
  • Address-request email has its own opt-out. Opting out of address requests does not opt the address out of event or critical service and security messages.
  • Non-user address-book data is deleted when you delete the associated contact or close your account. Separate address-request delivery records follow the purpose-specific retention schedules in Section 6.1.

9.2 Requests About Non-User Data

You are responsible for having a lawful basis for storing other people's information in Tether and for giving any notice the law requires.

If someone whose information is stored in Tether contacts us about it, we will respond to them directly as the law requires and will not tell the user who stored it who made the request. We may ask that user to help, and we may restrict or delete the information where the law requires.


10. Analytics, Tracking, and Mobile SDKs

10.1 Mobile Analytics SDKs

As a mobile app, Tether uses software development kit (SDK) equivalents to what cookies do on websites. These SDKs collect technical data to help us operate and improve the Service. We use:

Sentry SDK (@sentry/react-native): Collects crash reports, error traces, and performance data. We do not attach your account, and personal information is filtered out before transmission.

PostHog SDK (posthog-react-native): Not started until you turn on analytics. It uses a random ID that is never your Tether account ID, does not record your screen or capture taps automatically, and stops when you turn analytics off.

RevenueCat SDK (react-native-purchases): Processes subscription purchases and provides subscription lifecycle analytics. No contact data is shared. RevenueCat may collect purchase-related device data per their privacy policy.

Expo Push SDK (expo-notifications): Registers push tokens for your devices. Notification text on your lock screen is generic; details load inside the app.

jail-monkey (on-device only): Performs a local jailbreak/root check at app launch. The result is not stored on our servers; a lockout or a failed check sends only the reason and platform to our error-monitoring provider (see Section 2.8).

We do not embed advertising SDKs, social-media tracking SDKs, attribution SDKs (e.g., AppsFlyer, Branch, Adjust, Singular), or behavioral profiling SDKs in the Tether app. The app does not request or use Apple's IDFA, does not use Google Play's Advertising ID, and does not declare advertising as a data-use purpose in either App Store or Play Store privacy disclosures.

10.2 Do Not Track (DNT)

Most web browsers and some mobile operating systems include a Do-Not-Track ("DNT") feature or setting. At this stage, no uniform technology standard for recognizing and implementing DNT signals has been finalized. Accordingly, we do not currently respond to DNT browser signals in a standardized way. Because we do not sell or share personal information, there is nothing for a Global Privacy Control (GPC) signal to opt you out of (see Section 7.2).

If a standard for online tracking is adopted that we must follow in the future, we will inform you about that practice in a revised version of this Privacy Policy.

10.3 Web Analytics

For tetherup.app web properties, we use minimal, privacy-respecting analytics that do not build behavioral profiles and do not share data with advertising networks.


11. International Data Transfers

Tether is operated from the United States, and your information is stored and processed in the United States by us and the service providers listed in Section 4.2. If you use Tether from outside the United States, your information will be transferred to and processed in the United States.


12. Third-Party Links and Integrations

12.1 Third-Party Services

Tether integrates with: Google Contacts (Google People API); Microsoft Contacts (Microsoft Graph API); RevenueCat/Apple App Store/Google Play Store (payments); and social media platforms (when you choose to link social profiles).

12.2 Third-Party Privacy Practices

We are not responsible for the privacy practices of third-party services. When you use these services, you are subject to their privacy policies. We recommend reviewing their policies before use. We only request the minimum necessary permissions and do not access data beyond what is required (e.g., we do not access your emails when connecting Google Contacts).


13. Push Notifications and Communications

13.1 Types of Communications

Transactional/Service Messages:

  • Authentication codes (SMS OTPs via Telnyx and email OTPs via Resend — required for account access)
  • Security alerts (for example, when a new device signs in to your account)
  • Phone-number-change security notifications — sent to the prior phone number (SMS) and the verified email address (email), each containing a 24-hour revocation link (see Section 3.7)
  • Email-address-change security notifications — sent to the prior verified email address (email), the new email address (email), the verified phone number (where applicable, SMS), and any other signed-in devices (push), each containing a 24-hour revocation link (see Section 3.7)
  • Critical service updates (maintenance, outages, security patches)

Marketing Messages: We do not currently send marketing email or SMS. If we start, we will ask for any consent the law requires and include an unsubscribe option in every message.

Push Notifications (Can Opt Out):

  • Contact information updates
  • Birthday and important date reminders
  • Directory activity
  • Event invitations and RSVP reminders

13.2 SMS Consent and TCPA Compliance

By tapping Get Started when you sign up, or by selecting the unchecked SMS consent box when you change your phone number later, you expressly consent to receive SMS messages from Tether via Telnyx, including OTPs and security alerts required for phone-based authentication and related Service functionality. Message and data rates may apply. Message frequency varies by activity.

  • Opt out of SMS: Reply STOP to any message. Tether sends only transactional SMS, so STOP stops every message we send — including the one-time passcodes used to sign you in.
  • Help: Reply HELP or contact support@tetherup.app
  • Note: If you cancel all SMS from us, you may lose access to certain features (including account authentication)
  • We will not share or sell mobile information or SMS opt-in data to third parties for promotional or marketing purposes. We also do not rent SMS-program data or disclose it for an unaffiliated third party's independent use

Full SMS terms: tetherup.app/sms

13.3 Managing Communications

  • Push Notifications: Disable via device settings (Settings > Notifications > Tether) or configure specific types in app settings
  • Email: Use the unsubscribe link in any event email, or manage notifications in app settings. Unsubscribing stops event email, except that Tether will still tell you if an event you were invited to is cancelled or its date, time or place changes, and that a spot opened up for you from an event's waitlist. Those notices are written by Tether, carry no message from the host, and are never sent to an address that bounced or reported our email as spam. If you unsubscribe by mistake on the page an unsubscribe link opens, the page that confirms your choice lets you undo it for 7 days: tick its box and press Undo. Undo is offered only on that page, right after you unsubscribe. Your mail app's own Unsubscribe button shows no page, so it offers no Undo. Undoing brings back only what you stopped on that page, and does not lift a block that follows a bounce or a spam report.
  • SMS: Text STOP to stop all Tether SMS, including authentication codes and security alerts. Text START to opt back in

14. Clipboard Access

Tether does not read your clipboard. The app writes to your clipboard only when you tap a copy button, and only the value you chose. Nothing you copy is sent to our servers.


15. Job Applicants

When you apply for a position at Tether through our website or via email, we collect information you provide in connection with your job application, including contact information, professional credentials, employment history, educational background, and other information typically included in a résumé or CV. We use this information to facilitate our recruitment activities and process employment applications, monitor recruitment statistics, and respond to your application. We do not use job applicant data for purposes unrelated to recruitment. Applicant data is retained for the duration of the recruitment process and for a reasonable period thereafter to comply with legal obligations or respond to inquiries. Contact privacy@tetherup.app for questions about your applicant data.


16. Updates to This Privacy Policy

We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time. We will post updates in the app and on our website, update the "Last Updated" date, and for material changes, provide prominent notice via in-app notification, email, and/or push notification. Your continued use after the effective date constitutes acceptance. We will ask for your consent before using information we already hold in a materially different way. If you do not agree, discontinue use and delete your account. We maintain a version history of this Privacy Policy; contact privacy@tetherup.app for previous versions.


17. Contact Us

PurposeContact
General privacy inquiriesprivacy@tetherup.app
Rights requests (access, deletion, correction)privacy@tetherup.app
Privacy appealsprivacy@tetherup.app (Subject: Privacy Rights Appeal)
General supportsupport@tetherup.app
PostalTether, LLC, 5900 Balcones Dr Ste 100, Austin, TX 78731, USA
In-AppSettings > Help & Support

We aim to respond to all privacy inquiries within 30 days (or as required by applicable law for rights requests).


18. Specific State and Country Disclosures

18.1 Nevada (NRS 603A)

We do not sell "covered information" as defined by Nevada law.

18.2 Texas (TDPSA)

We do not sell personal data. We do not process personal data for targeted advertising. Your rights under the TDPSA (access, correct, delete, portability, appeal) are honored as described in Section 7.3.

18.3 California — Additional Disclosures

Because we do not sell or share personal information, and use sensitive personal information only as needed to provide the Service, we do not offer "Do Not Sell or Share" or "Limit the Use of My Sensitive Personal Information" links. You can make any privacy request at privacy@tetherup.app.

18.4 Canada (PIPEDA)

See Section 7.4.


19. Definitions

Personal Information: Information that identifies, relates to, describes, or could reasonably be linked with you or your household.

Processing: Any operation performed on personal information, including collection, use, storage, disclosure, and deletion.

Service: The Tether mobile application and all related services.

User / You: The person using Tether or the entity on whose behalf the person is using Tether.

Device: Any electronic device capable of running the Tether application.

Contact: A person whose information you store in Tether.

Non-User: A person whose information you have stored in Tether but who does not have a Tether account.

Privacy Circle / Sharing Tier: One of three type categories (Community, Professional, Close) controlling what information you share.

Shared Directory/Circle: A collaborative space where multiple Tether users share contact information based on common affiliation.

Sensitive Personal Information (SPI): Personal information including health data, precise geolocation, biometric data, financial account information, racial or ethnic origin, religious beliefs, and other categories defined under CCPA/CPRA and similar laws.

Mutual-Contact Discovery: A suggestion, based on the phone numbers saved in users' address books or on the connections two users share, that they may know each other (see Section 3.9). It never creates or accepts a connection; one user must send a request and the other must accept it.

EXIF Metadata: Exchangeable Image File Format data embedded in digital photos, which may include GPS coordinates, camera model, and timestamps.


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